Happy International Women’s day !!!
For more information about this day click here on the International Women’s Day website. I will also have an exhibition in Forest Gate East London
As an appreciation for all the women who work hard I want you to Tag a Beautiful women or business here..
I am now working alongside a herbalist for a limited time for my Womb Healing, and Coaching sessions.
I was asked by Herbalist Sophia to sit in my sessions so that she could observe the practice of an established therapist. I jumped at the chance of working with a Herbalist because of my own love of herbs and secondly, the effect herbs have on the body especially the Uterus and general health of women. I also feel the energy of two therapists will enhance the healing within a much quicker timeline.
Healing the womb is a revolutionary act.
Taking time for womb healing automatically makes one feel whole again and able to deal with the stresses of life.
My Womb healing sessions will enable you to have more control over any Gynaecological conditions you are currently experiencing. I cannot create miracles (well according to my clients I can), but I can get you to feel, sleep and think better about your health and your body.
The Creative Healing Method Coaching programme
will help you heal from that breakup or give you the confidence to set up that business or connect to your intuition? This programme will bring more clarity and help you set good boundaries which is always weaker when we are experiencing womb issues.
(basically, it is going from 1 to 20 in a short space of time).
Don't take my word for it here are some examples.
R wanted to travel, feel more connected within her self after nine months of the creative healing method she travelled to an exotic location and is now more in her power.
J, wanted more connection and confidence, more boundaries and within six months she felt much clearer and secure in her emotions. After a year working with me, J was able to set boundaries within several relationships and establish a self-care plan for herself that managed her anxiety levels.
B had a chronic womb issue which has improved within three months.
Lastly, T was feeling very isolated and within 6 months she had a job, her own space and is in the process of expanding her life's work and offer.
If any of this speaks to you then book a discovery call with me.
Marilyn x
All I can say about 2018 is that you Kicked my arse I totally jumped off the cliff to support myself a 100 percent
My spa dates were cancelled, my clothes were recycled and I did not purchase any new shoes in 2019 which meant I consumed very little and my cash went back into my marketing and business.
After my Dad passed over in 2017 and my brother in law six months earlier, I focused on working and making money for others. As soon as 2018 hit I entered a new relationship - with myself.
From the beginning of 2018 I vowed to concentrate on myself (so no love interest with Musicians, Artist, or Poets (apparently according to Liz Green I am the proverbial troubadour so I needed to experience my lament and love by myself and for myself),
It is so interesting in cyber world we talk about ‘Self Love’ but, self Love like any relationship takes work as there is still compromises, and decisions to be made so that one can balance work and life.
In relationships there was a struggle to balance time between my partner and friends, in relationship to self this is still a challenge. I was totally immersed in myself and the joy I felt being in this zone of pure bliss. I now understand how I love because I gave myself that total unconditional love, so now moving forward I need to cater to three groups of humans, myself, my partner and my circle.
During this time I was also aware of the difference between hiding/withdrawing from the world and loving myself, eating, going out dinning and walking for oneself and with oneself, I was running towards my self love not away from the world.
Surrender : mjfontaine
I went to events and concerts, walked, ate in restaurants, all by my self (cue the music) and at times I felt a slight pang but that was my head and conditioning, my heart was fun and having fun.
I never knew this type of bliss existed. - communion with the Creator my creativity flourished also.
My work became deeper and thick with authenticity and transparency. I re discovered places in my business that I neglected and threw money at so I could not deal with those areas. The reduction of funds also made me realise how much I used money as a way to put a band aid on issues that challenged my self worth and confidence, This clarity of my life situation enabled me to look at my business, my boundaries and my worth. How many times do we make a business decision based upon validation? It is surprising how Social media totally dictates how entrepreneurs actually portray themselves online at the cost to their business model.
Since walking my own path and setting a better strategy I got real and practical, learned, applied the steps but checked with my heart to see if the steps were congruent with my values. Where there was confusion I asked the adult part of myself to apply a practical solutions.
Stuff just go more real and I am actually running a proper business MA!
My clients increased, more sales of my products and more engagement,
There are more surprises coming in 2019 which is totally gonna switch up my work.
First I had to check in with my partner - Myself.
Have a great 2019 please see my next post that will have the review questions of 2018
Marilyn x
The Tao of the dark tunnel
I can be pretty adventurous and other times I can be a deer in headlights (this is rare for me as I am a Leo) but when this dastardly affliction hits me it can have a great impact on my life!
Think embarrassing ex-boyfriends, bad jobs, impulse buying "the offer ends at midnight” all very time consuming and sometimes painful... I say it's better to make mistakes than have regrets because mistakes are better when they come from desire not fear. (Disclaimer this does not include infidelity or other untoward desires there is no wisdom in the mistake of breaking hearts or addiction)
However there is nothing more paralyzing than fear of a possible outcome such as losing a contract, or making the right decision regarding ones career or running out of petrol whilst one is in the Blackwell tunnel!
The Blackwell tunnel
The Blackwell tunnel is 4,125 feet long.
I have a new car so I didn't really know the the amount of petrol one has in a reserve tank!
The scene
I am driving south of the river and all of a sudden, I am in the tunnel and the petrol light comes on. I am horrified I never go into a tunnel without petrol because well it's dangerous and irresponsible, and I am also very claustrophobic in tunnels!!!
Anyway the day before I was asking a client about her fear and how it affects our choices. So to make an example of myself (I like to practice what I preach). I decided to test the emotional responses to fear
So as the panic and negative self-talk set in I decided to ask myself
What part of me is fearful, where is it located?
What is the wise intuitive part of me saying and what is it saying? Where is it located in my body?
believe me everything slows down especially if your practising deep breathing to calm yourself down
After practising the questions and dialogue the journey through the tunnel was the quickest journey I ever had....
For the key was slowing down and stepping away from the panic or fear by breathing (which we forget to do) also self-talk is a really good way of staying calm. The aim is to talk to yourself like you would talk to a dear friend. This is a good way of calming yourself down so don't beat up or hate on yourself doesn’t help the situation at all.
In my early twenties I suffered from panic attacks and during that time all rationality went out of the window however, a tool I used to get out of the panic state was to give myself positive and reassuring talks rather than run around and create more drama. There are times where the batons of support during fearful times have to be passed to my circle of care/friends/gypsy crew (that’s why it’s important to have good people around you).
The lesson of this journey is balance and being still in a crisis if you cannot do that find a way to get there as soon as you can.
What do you do to remain centred?
The is the first episode of our Rebranded show now called The Candid Conversations show.
Today I discuss Shame and Vulnerability and how it affects our daily lives, relationships, jobs and mental health.
Trigger warning ! This episode may bring up old feelings so I have included links that you visit and use for support.
Music by Rebbz
This episode is sponsered by Willique -Exceptional quality handbags available
https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame?language=en
Anodea Judith - Chakras and Shame https://www.mixcloud.com/alignpodcast/anodea-judith-eastern-body-western-mind-chakra-system-ep-137/
Biodynamic Massage
Alexander Lowen exercises.
Please note that this is an old video: therefore the retrograde information will not apply to this current time.
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